Showing posts with label Self Help. Show all posts
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Friday, December 7, 2007

The 25 most difficult questions you'll be asked on a job interview

The 25 most difficult questions you'll be asked on a job interview
Being prepared is half the battle.


If you are one of those executive types unhappy at your present post and embarking on a New Year's resolution to find a new one, here's a helping hand. The job interview is considered to be the most critical aspect of every expedition that brings you face-to- face with the future boss. One must prepare for it with the same tenacity and quickness as one does for a fencing tournament or a chess match.

  1. Tell me about yourself.

    Since this is often the opening question in an interview, be extracareful that you don't run off at the mouth. Keep your answer to a minute or two at most. Cover four topics: early years, education, work history, and recent career experience. Emphasize this last subject. Remember that this is likely to be a warm-up question. Don't waste your best points on it.

  2. What do you know about our organization?

    You should be able to discuss products or services, revenues, reputation, image, goals, problems, management style, people, history and philosophy. But don't act as if you know everything about the place. Let your answer show that you have taken the time to do some research, but don't overwhelm the interviewer, and make it clear that you wish to learn more.

    You might start your answer in this manner: "In my job search, I've investigated a number of companies.

    Yours is one of the few that interests me, for these reasons..."

    Give your answer a positive tone. Don't say, "Well, everyone tells me that you're in all sorts of trouble, and that's why I'm here", even if that is why you're there.

  3. Why do you want to work for us?

    The deadliest answer you can give is "Because I like people." What else would you like-animals?

    Here, and throughout the interview, a good answer comes from having done your homework so that you can speak in terms of the company's needs. You might say that your research has shown that the company is doing things you would like to be involved with, and that it's doing them in ways that greatly interest you. For example, if the organization is known for strong management, your answer should mention that fact and show that you would like to be a part of that team. If the company places a great deal of emphasis on research and development, emphasize the fact that you want to create new things and that you know this is a place in which such activity is encouraged. If the organization stresses financial controls, your answer should mention a reverence for numbers.

    If you feel that you have to concoct an answer to this question - if, for example, the company stresses research, and you feel that you should mention it even though it really doesn't interest you- then you probably should not be taking that interview, because you probably shouldn't be considering a job with that organization.

    Your homework should include learning enough about the company to avoid approaching places where you wouldn't be able -or wouldn't want- to function. Since most of us are poor liars, it's difficult to con anyone in an interview. But even if you should succeed at it, your prize is a job you don't really want.

  4. What can you do for us that someone else can't?

    Here you have every right, and perhaps an obligation, to toot your own horn and be a bit egotistical. Talk about your record of getting things done, and mention specifics from your resume or list of career accomplishments. Say that your skills and interests, combined with this history of getting results, make you valuable. Mention your ability to set priorities, identify problems, and use your experience and energy to solve them.

  5. What do you find most attractive about this position? What seems least attractive about it?

    List three or four attractive factors of the job, and mention a single, minor, unattractive item.

  6. Why should we hire you?

    Create your answer by thinking in terms of your ability, your experience, and your energy. (See question 4.)

  7. What do you look for in a job?

    Keep your answer oriented to opportunities at this organization. Talk about your desire to perform and be recognized for your contributions. Make your answer oriented toward opportunity rather than personal security.

  8. Please give me your defintion of [the position for which you are being interviewed].

    Keep your answer brief and taskoriented. Think in in terms of responsibilities and accountability. Make sure that you really do understand what the position involves before you attempt an answer. If you are not certain. ask the interviewer; he or she may answer the question for you.

  9. How long would it take you to make a meaningful contribution to our firm?

    Be realistic. Say that, while you would expect to meet pressing demands and pull your own weight from the first day, it might take six months to a year before you could expect to know the organization and its needs well enough to make a major contribution.

  10. How long would you stay with us?

    Say that you are interested in a career with the organization, but admit that you would have to continue to feel challenged to remain with any organization. Think in terms of, "As long as we both feel achievement-oriented."

  11. Your resume suggests that you may be over-qualified or too experienced for this position. What's Your opinion?

    Emphasize your interest in establishing a long-term association with the organization, and say that you assume that if you perform well in his job, new opportunities will open up for you. Mention that a strong company needs a strong staff. Observe that experienced executives are always at a premium. Suggest that since you are so wellqualified, the employer will get a fast return on his investment. Say that a growing, energetic company can never have too much talent.

  12. What is your management style?

    You should know enough about the company's style to know that your management style will complement it. Possible styles include: task oriented (I'll enjoy problem-solving identifying what's wrong, choosing a solution and implementing it"), results-oriented ("Every management decision I make is determined by how it will affect the bottom line"), or even paternalistic ("I'm committed to taking care of my subordinates and pointing them in the right direction").

    A participative style is currently quite popular: an open-door method of managing in which you get things done by motivating people and delegating responsibility.

    As you consider this question, think about whether your style will let you work hatppily and effectively within the organization.

  13. Are you a good manager? Can you give me some examples? Do you feel that you have top managerial potential?

    Keep your answer achievementand ask-oriented. Rely on examples from your career to buttress your argument. Stress your experience and your energy.

  14. What do you look for when You hire people?

    Think in terms of skills. initiative, and the adaptability to be able to work comfortably and effectively with others. Mention that you like to hire people who appear capable of moving up in the organization.

  15. Have you ever had to fire people? What were the reasons, and how did you handle the situation?

    Admit that the situation was not easy, but say that it worked out well, both for the company and, you think, for the individual. Show that, like anyone else, you don't enjoy unpleasant tasks but that you can resolve them efficiently and -in the case of firing someone- humanely.

  16. What do you think is the most difficult thing about being a manager or executive?

    Mention planning, execution, and cost-control. The most difficult task is to motivate and manage employess to get something planned and completed on time and within the budget.

  17. What important trends do you see in our industry?

    Be prepared with two or three trends that illustrate how well you understand your industry. You might consider technological challenges or opportunities, economic conditions, or even regulatory demands as you collect your thoughts about the direction in which your business is heading.

  18. Why are you leaving (did you leave) your present (last) job?

    Be brief, to the point, and as honest as you can without hurting yourself. Refer back to the planning phase of your job search. where you considered this topic as you set your reference statements. If you were laid off in an across-the-board cutback, say so; otherwise, indicate that the move was your decision, the result of your action. Do not mention personality conflicts.

    The interviewer may spend some time probing you on this issue, particularly if it is clear that you were terminated. The "We agreed to disagree" approach may be useful. Remember hat your references are likely to be checked, so don't concoct a story for an interview.

  19. How do you feel about leaving all your benefits to find a new job?

    Mention that you are concerned, naturally, but not panicked. You are willing to accept some risk to find the right job for yourself. Don't suggest that security might interest you more than getting the job done successfully.

  20. In your current (last) position, what features do (did) you like the most? The least?

    Be careful and be positive. Describe more features that you liked than disliked. Don't cite personality problems. If you make your last job sound terrible, an interviewer may wonder why you remained there until now.

  21. What do you think of your boss?

    Be as positive as you can. A potential boss is likely to wonder if you might talk about him in similar terms at some point in the future.

  22. Why aren't you earning more at your age?

    Say that this is one reason that you are conducting this job search. Don't be defensive.

  23. What do you feel this position should pay?

    Salary is a delicate topic. We suggest that you defer tying yourself to a precise figure for as long as you can do so politely. You might say, "I understand that the range for this job is between $______ and $______. That seems appropriate for the job as I understand it." You might answer the question with a question: "Perhaps you can help me on this one. Can you tell me if there is a range for similar jobs in the organization?"

    If you are asked the question during an initial screening interview, you might say that you feel you need to know more about the position's responsibilities before you could give a meaningful answer to that question. Here, too, either by asking the interviewer or search executive (if one is involved), or in research done as part of your homework, you can try to find out whether there is a salary grade attached to the job. If there is, and if you can live with it, say that the range seems right to you.

    If the interviewer continues to probe, you might say, "You know that I'm making $______ now. Like everyone else, I'd like to improve on that figure, but my major interest is with the job itself." Remember that the act of taking a new job does not, in and of itself, make you worth more money.

    If a search firm is involved, your contact there may be able to help with the salary question. He or she may even be able to run interference for you. If, for instance, he tells you what the position pays, and you tell him that you are earning that amount now and would Like to do a bit better, he might go back to the employer and propose that you be offered an additional 10%.

    If no price range is attached to the job, and the interviewer continues to press the subject, then you will have to restpond with a number. You cannot leave the impression that it does not really matter, that you'll accept whatever is offered. If you've been making $80,000 a year, you can't say that a $35,000 figure would be fine without sounding as if you've given up on yourself. (If you are making a radical career change, however, this kind of disparity may be more reasonable and understandable.)

    Don't sell yourself short, but continue to stress the fact that the job itself is the most important thing in your mind. The interviewer may be trying to determine just how much you want the job. Don't leave the impression that money is the only thing that is important to you. Link questions of salary to the work itself.

    But whenever possible, say as little as you can about salary until you reach the "final" stage of the interview process. At that point, you know that the company is genuinely interested in you and that it is likely to be flexible in salary negotiations.

  24. What are your long-range goals?

    Refer back to the planning phase of your job search. Don't answer, "I want the job you've advertised." Relate your goals to the company you are interviewing: 'in a firm like yours, I would like to..."

  25. How successful do you you've been so far?

    Say that, all-in-all, you're happy with the way your career has progressed so far. Given the normal ups and downs of life, you feel that you've done quite well and have no complaints.

    Present a positive and confident picture of yourself, but don't overstate your case. An answer like, "Everything's wonderful! I can't think of a time when things were going better! I'm overjoyed!" is likely to make an interviewer wonder whether you're trying to fool him . . . or yourself. The most convincing confidence is usually quiet confidence.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

52 PROVEN STRESS REDUCERS

52 PROVEN STRESS REDUCERS

1. Get up fifteen minutes earlier in the
morning. The inevitable morning mishaps will be less stressful.



2. Prepare for the morning the evening before. Set the breakfast
table. Make lunches. Put out the clothes you plan to wear, etc.



3. Don't rely on your memory. Write down appointment times, when
to pick up the laundry, when library books are due, etc. ("The palest
ink is better than the most retentive memory."- Old Chinese Proverb)



4. Do nothing you have to lie about later.



5. Make copies of all keys. Bury a house key in a secret spot in
the garden. Carry a duplicate car key in your wallet, apart from your key
ring.



6. Practice preventive maintenance. Your car, appliances, home and
relationships will be less likely to break down "at the worst possible
moment."



7. Be prepared to wait. A paperback book can make a wait in a post
office line almost pleasant.



8. Procrastination is stressful. Whatever you want to do tomorrow,
do today; whatever you want to do today, do it now.



9. Plan ahead. Don't let the gas tank get below onequarter full,
keep a well- stocked "emergency shelf'' of home staples, don't wait
until you're down to your last bus token or postage stamp to buy more, etc.



10. Don't put up with something that doesn't work right. If your
alarm clock wallet, shoe laces, windshield wipers-whatever-are a constant
aggravation, get them fixed or get new ones.



11. Allow 15 minutes of extra time to get to appointments. Plan to
arrive at an airport one hour before domestic departures.



12. Eliminate (or restrict) the amount of caffeine in your diet.



13. Always set up contingency plans, "just in case." ("If
for some reason either of us is delayed, here's what we'll do..." Or,
"If we get split up in the shopping center, here's where we'll meet.")



14. Relax your standards. The world will not end if the grass doesn't
get mowed this weekend.



15. Pollyanna-Power! For every one thing that goes wrong, there are
probably 10 or 50 or 100 blessings. Count 'em!



16. Ask questions. Taking a few moments to repeat back the directions
that someone expects of you, etc., can save hours. (The old "the hurrieder
I go, the behinder I get" idea.)



17. Say "No!" Saying no to extra projects, social activities
and invitations you know you don't have the time or energy for takes practice,
self-respect and a belief that everyone, everyday, needs quiet time to relax
and to be alone.



18. Unplug your phone. Want to take a long bath, meditate, sleep
or read without interruption? Drum up the courage to temporarily disconnect.



(The possibility of there being a terrible emergency in the next hour or
so is almost nil.)



19. Turn "needs" into preferences. Our basic physical needs
translate into food, water, and keeping warm. Everything else is a preference.
Don't get attached to preferences.



20. Simplify, simplify, simplify.



21. Make friends with nonworriers. Chronic worrywarts are contagious.



22. Take many stretch breaks when you sit a lot.

23.
If you can't find quiet at home, wear
earplugs.



24. Get enough sleep. Set your alarm for bedtime.



25. Organize! A place for everything and everything in its place.
Losing things is stressful.



26. Monitor your body for stress signs. If your stomach muscles are
knotted and your breathing is shallow, relax your muscles and take some
deep, slow breaths.



27. Write your thoughts and feelings down on paper. It can help you
clarify and give you a renewed perspective.



28. Do this yoga exercise when you need to relax: Inhale through
your nose to the count of eight. Pucker your lips and exhale slowly to the
count of 16. Concentrate on the long sighing sound and feel the tension
dissolve. Repeat 10 times.



29. Visualize success before any experience you fear. Take time to
go over every part of the event in your mind. Imagine how great you will
look, and how well you will present yourself.



30. If the stress of deadlines gets in the way of doing a job, use
diversion. Take your mind off the task and you will focus better when you're
on task.



31. Talk out your problems with a friend. It helps to relieve confusion.



32. Avoid people and places that don't fit your personal needs and
desires. If you hate politics, don't spend time with politically excited
people.



33. Learn to live one day at a time.



34. Everyday, do something you really enjoy.



35. Add an ounce of love to everything you do.



36. Take a bath or shower to relieve tension.



37. Do a favor for someone every day.



38. Focus on understanding rather than on being under stood, on loving
rather than on being loved.



39. Looking good makes you feel better.



40. Take more time between tasks to relax. Schedule a realistic day.



41. Be flexible. Some things are not worth perfection.



42. Stop negative self-talk: "I'm too fat, too old, etc..."



43. Change pace on weekends. If your week was slow, be active. If
you felt nothing was accomplished during the week, do a weekend project.



44. "Worry about the pennies, and the dollars will take care
of themselves." Pay attention to the details in front of you.



45. Do one thing at a time. When you are working on one thing, don't
think about everything else you have to do.



46. Allow time every day for privacy, quiet and thinking.



47. Do unpleasant tasks early and enjoy the rest of the day.



48. Delegate responsibility to capable people.



49. Take lunch breaks. Get away from your work in body and in mind.



50. Count to 1,000, not 10, before you say something that could make
matters worse.



51. Forgive people and events. Accept that we live in an imperfect
world.



52. Have an optimistic view of the world. Most people do the best
they can.